Kid bullies him at recess (Adrian, Age 8)

Ep. 12 – Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Knowing when to get adult help

Adrian wonders what to do when a kid picks on him every day at recess.

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(Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

- What is the difference between bullying and ordinary meanness? Why does this matter? How would you respond to these situations differently?

- If someone is not listening when you ask them to stop, why does it make sense to stop trying to make them change what they’re doing and instead focus on taking care of yourself?

- How could standing near an adult or staying near friends make you less likely to get picked on?

- What do you think is likely to happen if you try to get even with someone who was mean to you?

- Why do you think some kids are mean to other kids?

- Have you ever been bullied?

Books mentioned in the podcast:

Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to making and Keeping Friends https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships/

Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing with Emotions about Friends and Other Kids https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-feelings/

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