Upset by name-calling (Chloe, Age 9)

Ep. 34 - Chloe, Age 9: Upset by name-calling | Communicating about communicating

Chloe’s friend doesn’t listen when she asks him to stop calling her names

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

- Have you ever been called names you didn’t like? What happened? How did you handle it?

- Why is it important to stop when a friend asks us to stop? What are some reasons why kids sometimes don’t stop when asked?

- Dr. Friendtastic mentioned communicating about your communication by describing the pattern you see and asking what’s going on. Why might this be a helpful thing to do in a friendship? (Hint: Why is it useful to describe the pattern? Why is it useful to ask what’s going on?")

- What does this statement mean: “How you think affects how you feel”?

Books mentioned in the podcast:

Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to making and Keeping Friends https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships/

Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing with Emotions about Friends and Other Kids https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-feelings/

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