Wondering why kids bully (Jayden, age 9)

Episode 6 – Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Empathy blind spots.

Jayden wonders why kids bully other kids.

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

- Have you ever been bullied or seen someone get bullied? Has anyone ever accused you of bullying them? What happened?

- There are lots of different kinds of bullying: physical (such as hitting or kicking), verbal (such as yelling at someone or calling them mean names), relational (such as excluding someone or spreading rumors about them), and cyberbullying (putting mean comments or photos online). Which do you things is worst and why?

- Why do you think kids often don’t speak up when they see bullying? Why do they sometimes not want to tell an adult about bullying?

- Sometimes friends get mad at each other and say or do mean things. Do you think that’s bullying? How can you tell the difference between an argument and bullying?

- Does your school do anything to try to stop bullying? Do you think those efforts are helpful? Why or why not?

Books mentioned in the podcast:Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to making and Keeping Friends https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships/Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing with Emotions about Friends and Other Kids https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-feelings/

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